Welcome to the Kink.care Negotiation Tool

Find something wrong or have suggestions on how to improve the tool?

Instructions:

Role: Select if you are interested in giving/topping, receiving/bottoming, or both/switching for each activity.

Interest Level: Select your interest level for each activity. 0 is the lowest, 5 is the highest.

Experience Level: Select your experience level for each activity. 0 is the lowest, 5 is the highest.

Hide: You can show/hide categories you are not interested in. Hidden categories responses will not be saved/shared.

Email: You can optionally provide your email address, this will allow you to edit/delete your responses in the future. (Your email is never shared with anyone).

Password: You can provide a password (optional), this will allow only people you give this password to, to be able to access your responses. Do not reuse a password from any of your accounts, this will be visible to anyone you share the link with.

Notes: You can optionally provide notes, these will be displayed to anyone who has or finds the direct link to your responses. Do not give information that you do not want visible to anyone with access to the link.

Links: Each submission will be given a unique link that you can share with others. If you enter a password, it will be required to view your responses by anyone with the link, however you will be able to embed the password in links you share to save your friends from having to type it. You can also use this link to edit or delete your responses in the future if you've entered a valid email address when submitting.




Bondage and Suspension

This category includes activities that involve physical restraint or immobilization, such as rope bondage or suspension play.

Impact/Percussion

This category includes activities that involve striking or hitting the body with objects or implements, such as caning or spanking.

Sexual Activity

This category includes activities that involve sexual contact between partners, such as oral sex, vaginal penetration, and anal intercourse.

Sensation Play

This category includes activities that focus on stimulating the senses through touch, sound, smell, taste, and sight, such as blindfolding or sensory deprivation play.

Breath Play

This category includes activities that involve restricting or limiting the user's breathing, such as breath control or breath holding games.

Humiliation & Degredation

This category includes activities that involve humiliating or degrading the user, such as verbal abuse or degradation fantasies.

Body Part Torture

This category includes activities that involve causing physical pain to the body, such as cutting or branding.

Consensual Non consent (CNC)

This category includes activities that involve obtaining permission from the user before engaging in certain acts, such as piercing or tattooing.

Roleplaying

This category includes activities that involve playing out specific roles or scenarios, such as teacher/student or master/slave play.

Domination, Service and Restrictive Behaviour

This category includes activities that involve one partner taking a dominant role in the relationship, such as BDSM or power exchange games.

Voyeurism/Exhibitionism

This category includes activities that involve watching or being watched by another person, such as exhibitionism or voyeurism.

Bodily Fluids and Functions

This category includes activities that involve bodily fluids or functions, such as urine play or enema play.

Body Types (Attraction)

This category includes activities that involve attraction to specific body types, such as muscular or athletic bodies.

Clothing

This category includes activities that involve wearing or removing clothing during play, such as BDSM or role-playing games.

Groupings/Partners

This category includes activities that involve grouping or partnering with other individuals for play, such as threesomes or foursomes.

Toys

This category includes activities that involve using toys or props to enhance the experience, such as vibrators or handcuffs.

Taboo

This category includes activities that involve taboo subjects or themes, such as incest or bestiality.

Surrealism

This category includes activities that involve incorporating elements of surrealism, such as dream-like imagery or abstract concepts, into BDSM play. This category may include activities like role-playing games involving imaginary creatures or situations, or incorporating elements of fantasy or imagination into physical interactions between partners.

Misc. Fetishes

This category includes a catch-all category for any other types of fetishes or interests that may not fit into one of the previous categories.
Top